Violenced against children,has increased ?

• Children's Day on July,23 2010 (Daily News "Berita Kota")

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Aris Merdeka Sirait from The National commission for children's protection said it had recorded 1.826 cases violence against children across the country starting January to may 2010.In first five months of 2010,there's 1.826 cases.The numbers violence against children covering sexual and physical violence,next Aris Merdeka Sirait as a chairman of The Nation Commission for children's protection added 68 percent of cases were done by close relatives.The were 1.891 cases in 2009,up from 1.626 1n 2008.the data was taken from The National commission of children's protection.It is social crisis and the violence doesn't make a sense.Those who are committed  the violence were one supposed to protect the children a lot,he said.Children who are prone to violence are street children and the children from middle and low income families.

How to stop ignoring the violence against children ? children are like a flowers they need treat and love tenderly.If handled wrong caused of many factors such as depression,anger,family problems,sorrow,frustrations,unclear future,and much more.We (everybody) involved in the life of child.The parent need to give more pay attention of peaceful conditions.Parent cam also minimize terrible decrease in moral characters and behavior as they learn quickly from their own parent.even though child has committed make a mistake,it is our duty to help him realize the seriousness of the mistake,with the help of the good word of wisdom by showing them,the right way avoiding the wrong tracks.Suppose we found to be performing violence activities,the duty parent give good advise and suggestion to avoid such practises.

A Violence from TV show programs.

• An ugly side of cartoon movies.

My neighbour Bagas was 5 .when i saw him hit on the head his friends.His parent didn't realize when fixing home the kid took hammer what for.Like most of the kids play with some other friend run,laugh,shouted each other,and hold something they want.What the kids do just imitate from something can not filter.I thought it must be cartoon TV shows effect such a copy action to use in the real world.
Since cartoon movies find as joyful TV program to wacth,the way kid talk,behave,and all they are doing is right because what they see in cartoon characters.They could be rude,brave,also idolize on what they see and imitate in real life.The children behavior changing more and more aggressive in the worsening atmosphere.Nowadays new technologies being introduced in the kids world but the kids don't introduce to countless the kind of cartoon movie  in the market today yet.
It shows that children already learn the negative thing ,and bad thing that the children think their favorite cartoon characters is doing great.they could be batman,superman,they could fly,it's look real they carious to see what happen when he tried to do some. I mean not saying all cartoon are bad,but be careful the kids could find his parent gun and tries to shoot it. DOOR ?!
And yet,cartoon are to violent,filled with hateful words,those are absolutely not a nice influence for the kids.If we take notice to the kids misbehave ones,they have been watching violent cartoon movies. The only,the cartoons are not always the reason's behavior,mostly part of it.By the time your kid acts different,take notice what kind of cartoon they see,maybe related to his act.

• What we should do about.?

In this case,you can get your children interested in different cartoon,that are only entertaining not the violence.
the only parents could do monitoring the kids watching cartoon everyday.Make sure that the kid only watch Cd's you buy for him.It's the best way to teach the children make differ the good and the bad ones.Should spent time with the kid a lot.How sent the kids outside instead of cartoon,go to swimming,library,make some craft,bake some cake,and much more.

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Cell phone during school times.

Many many times ago,if there's something happened such as death man,chief of the village want to gather community in my own country using (@javanese:Kentongan = made of wood or bamboo carved makes sound loudly by hitting) as a media. All people knew the special codes weather is death man,or chief of the village wanted to informs new policies from Government or some other programs.
After years later,Loudspeakers is one the best way to announce something happen on the village.A chief of the village didn't have to invited by door to door system. After cell phone invited all activities getting more practical,simple and cheap.Toady's seems cell phone has become of part of daily life.Microsoft owner's used say that would be at least 1 PC in a family.and now almost happen. How about cell phones,? It.s came after PC in Indonesia especially at big cities that every family has more than 1 cell phone,could be 2, 3 or more in fact.
Since cell phone has become growing stuff rapidly.It's also a part an integral of student life,in a way should cell phone allowed at school.There's many opinion about this, what do you think?.One research shows 22% age of 6- 9 years own cell phone,60% of teens of age (10-14).and 84% of teens of (15 -18).A cell phone companies is now marketing to younger colorful kid phones and  easy to use features.such a good prospect.
As long as cell phone not to be used in negative effect the children mind and would also create a discrimination among them and the atmosphere of the school.In case of emergency cell phone is most effective ways to make phone call at school,on the way to home or something unexpected happen.
For  parent it self  new cell phone features with GPS can easily monitor their own kids position.It's all depend on child responsible if they deserve it.On the other hand parent experience shock when they receive the bill for theirs cell phone.especially for ring tones,text picture,video massaging,downloadable games,connecting to the Internet can all be very expensive and heavily used by teens.

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